3.Ages 13 – 18 years old. Experience tells second time parents that the joy of childhood has now slipped into the past. A real experience awaits the parent of a teenager. This doesn’t necessarily mean a bad thing, just totally different. Now more than ever you’ll need patience and a very good memory! Independence takes a real step forward, and you’ll be required to chauffeur your child to activities and functions, and the boy and girl thing will start in earnest. It can be scary for you, but if you’ve clipped your wings gradually, and taught them well it will be less stressful. Driving a car is the sure sign of approaching adulthood. You can set rules and guidelines on use. Of course some will be more willful, but you can take away the keys too. It might be good to let them experience what paying for insurance is like by requiring them to hold a part time job at 16, or even letting them make the car payment. Again be ready for those unexpected moments of need. Be ready to help and encourage with solid advice.

So letting go can be more enjoyable with these tips and tricks for you. There still may be times when you just can’t let go, but in the end letting them fly free to experience their world is the best gift you can give them. They will make mistakes, and run home to seek the advice of their parents. Be there for them with an encouraging word and understanding, knowing that you’ve given them wings to fly.

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